The Narcissistic Mother. Bye Bye, Mommy Dearest: All you are asking the abusive Narcissistic Mother...

The Narcissistic Mother. Bye Bye, Mommy Dearest: All you are asking the abusive Narcissistic Mother...: AS A DOG RETURNS TO ITS VOMIT, SO A FOOL REPEATS HIS FOLLY.....Proverbs 26:11 NLT BUT BECAUSE OF YOUR STUBBORNESS AND YOUR UNREPENTANT ...

All you are asking the abusive Narcissistic Mother to do is JUST STOP IT. Nothing else.

AS A DOG RETURNS TO ITS VOMIT, SO A FOOL REPEATS HIS FOLLY.....Proverbs 26:11 NLT

BUT BECAUSE OF YOUR STUBBORNESS AND YOUR UNREPENTANT HEART, YOU ARE STORING UP WRATH AGAINST YOURSELF FOR THE DAY OF GOD'S WRATH, WHEN HIS RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT WILL BE REVEALED.  GOD WILL GIVE TO EACH PERSON ACCORDING TO WHAT HE HAS DONE....Romans 2: 5-6 NIV

For more on this topic, please visit the Sections WHY THEY ABUSE, BETRAY, OR ABANDON YOU, THE SILENT PARTNER, SETTING & ENFORCING LIMITS & BOUNDARIES, REBUKING, REPENTING & APOLOGIES,  HAPPIER HOLIDAYS, and REPROBATES & CUTTING TIES

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It is truly a wonder to behold the amount of time, energy, and creativity that abusers and their Silent Partners will put into inventing an infinite variety of lame excuses to justify why they should be allowed to continue hurting others.   How much easier and more constructive it would be to just re-direct and devote all of that effort into simply changing their behavior.  But They Don't Want To.  So, whether confronting your abuser, or reading about all of her ridiculous excuses, keep in mind that all you're really asking of her, and all she really has to do, is JUST STOP IT.

No forgiveness to the Narcissist who continues the abuse.

However, forgiveness and the requirement to forgive are not necessarily what we have been led to believe they are by our abusers and their enablers, or by others who are either misinformed or trying to deceive us.  In the Bible, we are told to forgiveas the Lord forgave us.(Colossians 3:13, Ephesians 4:32)  The Lord forgives us when we repent. (Ezekiel 33:10-20, Isaiah 55:6-7, Jeremiah 6:16-30 & 26:3, Luke 13:3 & 5, Acts 3:19)  He does NOT forgive those who are 'stiff-necked' , refuse to repent, and intend to continue in their sinful ways, and he does not expect us to, either.  By forgiving unremorseful evildoers, we are depriving them of the opportunity to repent and transform their lives.http://www.luke173ministries.org/466805